Got complaints from life?
Do you all feel sometimes, maybe this is what I deserve, and you are just so done with putting effort and think why am I hustling when the struggle is what put into my life?
So you decide to accept the kind o lie you are not happy with and accept the life crisis you are in and do not even try to get out of it. Sometimes cherry on the top scene becomes a dialogue, eventually, we all have to die, what is the need for this hustle and put in so much effort.
This makes you rest for a bit and then you again start complaining.
So my question would be acknowledging the act we all have to die, should you stop the desire for a perfect life?
No, that is not the solution to your crisis. At some point in our lives, we all go through such a struggling situation, that does not mean giving up. If you go through tough situations keep yourself strong and if it requires genuine efforts to get out of it put that effort in.
I came across an inspiring story of a girl, who was forced to live her life as her family wanted. But that acceptance turns out to living on her own dreams, later on. In-country like India we are aware families are very conservative. It was hard for her to live life on her own terms. It was hard to even choose the subject of her own, dresses of her own, and sometimes colors of dresses too.
Everything for her was decided by the family. If she doesn't follow the rules she is a shame of the family and declared characterless.
To maintain that silver lining and follow her dreams, was difficult, and this was the biggest life crisis for her, but she did not give up convincing her family. She didn't become a rebellion or someone who leaves the home out of anger and frustration.
She put in all her efforts to convince her conservative family, assured them she will manage herself well. She was motivated to get admission in a reputed engineering college and worked really hard along with family pressure and got admitted to it. Completed her college and now works in an MNC and is an independent woman now.
What would have happened to the life her family forced on her? She would have been cursing it, but she chose the other way and turned the table or herself.
If someone else would have been in this situation, probably they would curse the family and would rant why me? We need to stop complaining and put in our efforts to overcome it. (Not every learning story you read should be of billionaires or famous people. Common people like us can also inspire others).
What do we learn from it is very clear, to get what you desire you have to go through thorns but don't lose the hope that you will never get the lower life you imagined for yourself.
We all desire or extraordinary life, I wish to have one.
The point I want you to take note of is doesn't get demotivated if stones are thrown at you. Be consistent with what you want and imagine how you will feel when you get what you desired. This will keep you motivated, and to get that extra motivation by reading the self-help book and motivational blog post.
Hit back to your life crisis and emerge as the winner.
